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Khaman Dhokla Recipe – The Fluffy Snack That Became the Talk of Our Kitty Party

If there is one Gujarati snack that has quietly become the universal favorite of kitty parties, it is Khaman Dhokla. Whether it’s a monsoon kitty in Delhi, a terrace brunch in Mumbai, or a traditional Saawan get-together in Jaipur – one soft, spongy bite of dhokla can melt every heart.

And today, I want to share a cute story behind it – something that happened in our kitty last month.

⭐ The Kitty Party Where Dhokla Won Hearts

The Kitty Party Where Dhokla Won Hearts

We had our kitty at Ritu’s house. She is known for hosting the most elegant parties – perfectly coordinated cushion covers, subtle fragrances, and her signature “hi-tea style serving.”

But this time, the surprise wasn’t her setup…
It was her starter item.

While we were chatting, catching up, and sipping nimbu sharbat, she walked in with a big smile and served small plates with perfectly cute squares of yellow khaman, drizzled with tempered sesame seeds and coriander.

Someone took the first bite and froze:

“Ritu! Yeh ready-made hai ya ghar ka?”

She blushed and said:

“Bilkul ghar ka. Five-minute mix se nahi… proper homemade!”

Conversation stopped.
Compliments started.

And guess what?

By the time snacks were over, the dhokla was finished – and all of us were asking:

  • How to make khaman dhokla at home?

  • What ingredients to use?

  • How does it turn out so soft?

So here I am today, sharing that tried-and-tested, kitty party special khaman dhokla recipe with you.

⭐ Khaman Dhokla Recipe (Soft, Fluffy & Perfect for Parties)

Khaman Dhokla Recipe

Ingredients

For Batter:

  • 1 cup gram flour (besan)

  • 2 tbsp rava/sooji (optional but helps texture)

  • 1 tbsp oil

  • 1 tbsp lemon juice

  • ½ cup curd

  • Salt to taste

  • Water as needed

  • 1 tsp Eno fruit salt

For Tempering:

  • 2 tsp oil

  • ½ tsp mustard seeds

  • 1 tsp sesame seeds

  • Few curry leaves

  • 2 chopped green chilies

  • ½ tsp sugar

  • ½ cup water

🍳 How to Make Khaman Dhokla

Step-by-step method

  1. Prep pan & steamer

    • Grease a tray or cake tin with oil. 

    • Boil water in a steamer/large pot and keep it ready.

  2. Make dry mix

    • In a bowl: sieve 1 cup besan + 2 tbsp semolina + 1/2 tsp salt + 1 tbsp sugar. Mix well.

  3. Wet mix

    • Add 1 tbsp oil and 3/4 cup curd to dry mix. Whisk to a lump-free, thick-pancake-batter consistency. Add 1 tbsp lemon juice and ginger-green chili paste if using. Adjust with a tablespoon of water at a time if too thick.

  4. Rest

    • Let batter rest 8–10 minutes (semolina softens).

  5. Add rising agent

    • Just before steaming: sprinkle 1 tsp Eno fruit salt on the batter (or 1 tsp baking soda). Add 1 tbsp lemon juice if using baking soda. Whisk quickly — you’ll see it foam up. Pour immediately into the greased tray and level lightly.

  6. Steam

    • Place tray in steamer, cover, steam for 12–15 minutes on medium heat. Check with a toothpick — it should come out clean.

  7. Cooling

    • Remove and let cool 3–4 minutes (still warm). Do not overcool — tempering absorbs better when slightly warm.

  8. Prepare tempering & syrup

    • Heat 2 tsp oil in small pan. Add mustard seeds; when they pop add sesame seeds, curry leaves, slit green chilies, and a pinch of hing. Add 1/2 cup water + 2 tbsp sugar; let come to a simmer and dissolve sugar. Pour this evenly over the warm dhokla so it soaks partly.

  9. Garnish & cut

    • After syrup soaks, cut into squares. Garnish with chopped coriander, freshly grated coconut and sev if desired. Serve warm or room temperature.

💡 Why Khaman Dhokla is the Perfect Kitty Party Snack

It checks all boxes:

✔ Light and healthy
✔ No deep frying
✔ Budget-friendly
✔ Quick to make
✔ Looks elegant on the table
✔ Loved by kids and adults alike

And the biggest bonus?
It stays fresh for hours – perfect for serving even if your kitty timings get extended (which they always do! 😄)

Quick, budget-friendly and crowd-pleasing snack options perfect for any kitty party.

🌟 Different Ways to Serve Khaman Dhokla

Different Ways to Serve Khaman Dhokla

Since searches show people ask:

  • difference between khaman and dhokla

  • how to make khaman dhokla

  • how to make dhokla at home

  • yellow dhokla variations

You can present it creatively in kitty parties:

🟡 1. Classic Khaman

With green chutney and sweet imli chutney.

🍅 2. Khaman Chaat

Top with onions, tomatoes, sev and chutneys.

🧀 3. Cheese Dhokla

Add grated cheese just before serving – kids love this!

🌶 4. Spicy Green Dhokla

Blend coriander and spinach into the batter for a vibrant green color.

Imagine serving a 3-flavor dhokla platter – your kitty ladies will be impressed!

🎀 Kitty Party Presentation Idea

Serve dhokla in a mini cake-stand or 3-tier tray.
Add a small card:

“Soft Khaman Dhokla – Gujarati Love on a Plate!”

Small touches like this make your snacks memorable and make your guests feel special.

If you want more tasty and easy ideas, also check out our kitty party snack list here

💭 Final Thoughts

Sometimes, the simplest dishes become the biggest stars.
Just like in Ritu’s kitty – where décor was perfect but khaman dhokla took all the compliments!

With this recipe, you too can prepare a soft, spongy, melt-in-mouth khaman that becomes the show-stealer of your next kitty party.

If you want more tasty and easy ideas, also check out our kitty party snack list here

FAQs

Q: Difference between khaman and dhokla?

A: In many places they’re used interchangeably; technically khaman often refers to the spongy besan-based version, while dhokla can be made with different flours. For readers, “khaman dhokla” usually means the soft besan steamed snack.

A: Yes — bake at 180°C for 18–20 min. Keep an eye; texture differs slightly.

A: Best within 2–3 hours at room temperature. Refrigeration makes it dense; if needed, reapply warm tempering and steam lightly to revive.

  1. Batter too thick
    Dhokla won’t rise.
    ✔ Add a little more water to make smooth, pouring batter.

  2. Not fermented enough (for traditional batter)
    Dhokla becomes dense.
    ✔ Let batter rest 6–8 hours.

  3. Adding Eno too early
    Eno loses power before steaming.
    ✔ Add Eno just before steaming and mix lightly.

  4. Old or less Eno/baking soda
    Dhokla won’t become fluffy.
    ✔ Use fresh Eno and the right amount.

  5. Mixing too much after adding Eno
    Air escapes.
    ✔ Mix only once and pour immediately.

  6. Wrong steaming time
    Too long = dry, too short = undercooked.
    ✔ Steam on medium flame for 12–15 minutes.

  7. No rest time for instant batter
    Instant batter also needs activation.
    ✔ Rest 10–15 minutes before adding Eno.

  8. No oil in batter
    Makes dhokla hard.
    ✔ Add 1–2 tsp oil to the batter.


Quick Tips

✔ Smooth batter
✔ Add Eno at the end
✔ Steam immediately
✔ Don’t open steamer early

The secret to soft and fluffy dhokla is:

  • Right batter: Not too thick, not too thin.

  • Add Eno at the end: Mix Eno just before steaming and steam immediately.

  • Fresh Eno or baking soda: Old Eno won’t work.

  • A little oil in batter: Helps keep dhokla soft.

  • Steam on medium flame: Too high or too low heat makes dhokla hard.

  • Good tempering: Hot water tadka keeps dhokla moist.

Follow these simple tips and your dhokla will always turn out soft and spongy

Common dhokla mistakes (very simple):

  1. Batter too thick or too thin → Dhokla becomes hard or flat.

  2. Adding ENO too early → It loses effect, dhokla won’t rise.

  3. Not preheating steamer → Dhokla turns flat.

  4. Old ENO/baking soda → No softness.

  5. Steaming too long → Becomes dry and rubbery.

  6. Cutting immediately → It breaks. Let it rest 5 minutes.

  7. No sugar-lemon water → Dhokla becomes dry.

If you want, I can also tell you easy tips for perfect dhokla.

If you want more tasty and easy snack ideas to pair with dhokla, check out this list of best snacks for kitty parties:

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